excuses

i find that when it comes to me, SHE doesnt find any excuses for me. Say if there is a situation that is not in my favour, she will not defend or find a possible excuse (not to get me out of trouble but more like finding an alternative cause to an action). however she will do so for everyone else (those that she favours), herself included. Even when someone she favours and I offer the same suggestion (i offered the suggestion first), she will not consider it until someone she favours say the same thing. that is so frustrating and i dun wanna be like a hypocrite.